by Jallen Rix | Jan 24, 2019 | adventure, body, community, consent, friendship, masculinity, massage, risk, self esteem, self-love, sexuality, spirituality, Touch, workshop
An afternoon workshop for men who enjoy touch to connect more authentically with other men. February 16, 2020, 1pm, Cathedral City, CA I often hear from those who want more touch, “…But Doc, I don’t know how to touch.” Too many of us are so afraid of doing touch...
by Jallen Rix | Jan 2, 2019 | sexuality, survey
Hello there friends! I am in the process of writing my next book, which will be about sexual health and I will, upon occasion, want to poll ANONYMOUSLY a few people about some very basic questions. This time, I’m wondering about how you look back on your...
by Jallen Rix | Jun 9, 2018 | body, LGBTQ, masculinity, self esteem, sexuality
Does your sexuality feel “never good enough”? Are you afraid if people really knew what you’d love to do sexuality, they would reject you? Is sex just not as fun as it used to be? Are you “too much in your head” to be your uniquely sexy self? Are you too worried about...
by Jallen Rix | Apr 2, 2018 | adventure, body, community, friendship, LGBTQ, masculinity, massage, self-love, sexuality, spirituality, Touch
I am standing naked next to a friend who is also naked laying face down on a massage table. Standing on the other side of the table is another naked friend and the two of us have all four of our hands lightly resting on the back of the one who is on the table. I...
by Jallen Rix | Mar 27, 2018 | adventure, burning man, community, fire, friendship, magic, masculinity, risk, self-esteme, sexuality, spirituality
I am sitting bundled up and “goggled up” in the middle of a dust storm in the middle of the night (Query: Do I call a dust storm in the black of night a white out?). The sensory deprivation is so severe that it begins to toy with my mind. I start to doubt what is up...
by Jallen Rix | Mar 21, 2018 | #metoo, #timesup, harrasment, masculinity, media, sexual abuse, sexuality
I’ve heard a lot of questions lately wondering what’s next for the #MeToo movement. Far be it from me, as a white man, to presume upon an organization primarily created by and for women freeing themselves from mostly male sexual oppression. Yet, as a gay activist and...
