Hello there friends! I am in the process of writing my next book, which will be about sexual health and I will, upon occasion, want to poll ANONYMOUSLY a few people about some very basic questions.

This time, I’m wondering about how you look back on your first-time sex with another person. I’m curious about your gut reaction when you think of your first-time experience (it’s often called “losing your virginity”). It’s just a couple of questions that will take less than a minute. Further, this is NOT produced through Facebook or any other big online social media company. It’s on Survey Monkey which creates private questionnaires and surveys and the answers and content is exclusively for me and NO ONE ELSE.

Some people might have trouble sorting out exactly who they were with or when their first-time occurred. I’m not so much concerned about knowing for sure exactly the person or time. I’m mostly concerned about how YOU LOOK BACK ON IT – as in, was it a positive or negative experience. It might not be the exact first time, but if YOU look back on it as your first time, that’s good enough for me. Further, if you have not had sex with another person as of yet, then you don’t have to fill this survey out.

Again, these answers are kept separate from any kind of contact info so these are ANONYMOUS.